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Ilse & Bongani

17 April 2027 · Karkloof, KZN Midlands
We are so happy to welcome you to our wedding website. Here you will find everything you need to know as we get ready to marry: the plans for the day, where to stay, and how to find your way to the valley.

Thank you for being part of our lives, and for joining us as we begin this next chapter together. We cannot wait to celebrate with you.
Our story

Our story

We met on a misty Sunday at the Karkloof farmers' market, both queueing for the last loaf of rye. Bongani let Ilse have it, then followed her to the coffee stand to ask whether it had been worth it. It had. We talked until the stalls were packed away.

Bongani proposed three winters later, halfway up the Karkloof Falls trail, in a drizzle so fine neither of us noticed it until the ring box was wet. Ilse said yes before he had finished the question, and we walked the rest of the way grinning like fools.

Since then we have built a slow, happy life: Sunday walks in the forest, a kitchen that always smells of bread, a vegetable patch the monkeys love more than we do, and an old dog called Bosbok who sleeps through all of it.

Now we are ready for the next chapter, and we would like to begin it among the trees where it all started, with the people who brought us here.

The day

How it unfolds

14:00

Ceremony

The forest chapel, Karkloof Valley

Under the yellowwoods. Please be seated by 13:45.

15:00

Drinks

The meadow

Bubbles, lemonade and something to nibble while the photos are taken.

17:30

Dinner

The old barn

A long-table supper by candlelight, with a few short speeches.

19:30

Cake cutting

The old barn

20:00

Dancing

The band plays until late. Bring a jersey: Midlands nights are cool.

Travel

Accommodations

Karkloof is half an hour north of Pietermaritzburg and about an hour and a half from King Shaka airport. We have held rooms at two places close by.

The Yellowwood Inn

Karkloof Road · 5 minutes to the venue

From R 1,450 a night

Quote our names when you book.

Mistbelt Cottages

Howick · 20 minutes to the venue

From R 1,100 a night

Use ILSEBONGANI for 10% off

Getting there

Turn off the R103 at Howick and follow the Karkloof road for 18 km. The last stretch is gravel but fine for any car.

Getting home

A shuttle runs back to Howick and the Yellowwood Inn from 22:30 until the last guest.

Will you be there?

Please reply by the middle of February

Reply to the invitation

Please reply by 15 February 2027

Registry

Your company is the loveliest gift. If you would like to give something more, here are a few ideas.

Honeymoon fund

A fortnight in the Cederberg, with a tent, a telescope and no phone signal

Our kitchen

A proper bread oven for the garden, one brick at a time

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Cash gift

I & B Nkosi · Capitec savings · 1490 2283 77 · Ref: your name

Good to know

Questions, answered

What should I wear?

Garden formal in soft, earthy colours. The ceremony is on grass, so choose your shoes kindly.

Will it be cold?

April afternoons are mild, but the evenings in the Midlands can be chilly. Bring a wrap or a jersey.

Can I bring a plus-one?

We can only welcome the guests named on your invitation. Thank you for understanding.

Are children welcome?

We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration.